To Contact a Provider: The Etiquette of Wooing a Sex Worker
You’ve done your research, you know she is real deal… how do you approach this?
When reaching out to a provider, a great first impression sets the tone for an enjoyable experience. By following proper etiquette, you demonstrate respect for the provider's time and boundaries. Here are a few key tips to keep in mind:
1. Read All Their Information in Full
Before reaching out, take the time to thoroughly read the provider's website, ads, and social media pages. Take the time to verify the legit-ness of a provider. Real providers put effort into curating clear and detailed brand, including information about how to contact, how to book, and their own standards. Read on up. Ladies love when you’re informed and and don’t ask unnecessary questions.
2. Be Ready to Provide Screening Information
Safety and discretion are vital in this profession. Screening ensures trust. Trust creates enthusiasm from your provider. Be prepared to provide identification or other requested info Rest assured, professional providers treat this information with confidentiality. We are not 12. If you ask that, don’t surprise if she hits you with the block.
3. Understand the Deposit Policy
Many providers require a deposit to confirm your appointment. This shows you’re serious about your booking. Ghosting appointments is harmful in any industry. Be aware of any cancel or reschedule policies. Everyone has different preferred payment methods (but no matter what, cash always goes in an envelope fellas).
4. Avoid Explicit Language
Avoid using explicit language or making inappropriate requests during digital communications. To politely asked if you are in the dark, use appropriate language (i.e. “If you are comfortable, do you mind sharing your boundaries for our upcoming appointment?”). Stick to practical topics like availability, services, and logistics. Keep it a professional exchange.
5. Arrive Early to Your Appointment
If you ain’t early, you are late, partner. Arriving early allows the provider to stick to their schedule and ensures you can enjoy your full session. If you're running late, communicate this as soon as possible. Keep in mind that tardiness will reduce the time for your session. No provider owes you anything once time is up.